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The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Every deen (religion) has an innate character. The character of Islam is modesty (haya’)” (Al-Muwatta 47,9). In another narration by Anas ibn Malik, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Indecency disfigures everything and modesty (haya’) enhances the charm of everything” (At-Tirmidhi 1741).Sambungan artikel di sini.
It is clear from the above narrations by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that modesty, decency, and respect are fundamental and basic characteristics of Islam. This applies to boys and girls as well as to men and women.
The reason for these guidelines is that in any intermingling of opposite sexes, especially in private, Satan makes the whisperings that can lead to indecency. Help your teenagers to understand and appreciate the larger context of the relationship between men and women according to Islamic teachings and guidelines. Be gentle with your teenagers and be assured that once they internalize the Islamic outlook, they will not engage in dating.
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